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Donnie McClurkin We fall down But we get up We fall down But we get up We fall down But we get up For a saint Is just a sinner who fell down, But we couldn't stay there, And got up We fall down But we get up We fall down But we get up We fall down But we get up For a saint Is just a sinner who fell down, But we couldn't stay there, And got up Get back up again Get back up again Get back up again Get back up again Get back up again Get back up again For a saint Is just a sinner who fell down And got up

I think your maintenance person "KG" is in great error leaving a citation about weeds being in my family's back patio. I can say factually that's a damned lie. My eldest son pruned the whole area three days ago. I am beginning to think Our family is being harassed by petty people who don't have enough to do. I also recall another citation about a table that is an all purpose table I have used specifically for outdoor events, like festivals. I believe the citation stated that my table should not be outside because it is an indoor table. This is asinine! I used that table to vend outside for 2 years, along with a tent, and like I said it is an all purpose table. People use them for banquets and many times for camping events. Outdoor activities. What I also wish to do is complain about the back gate on the patio. I myself requested the lock be fixed. And although the gate lock was repaired, no one dared fix the whole door so the door itself does not swipe the ground...

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A reason to be Cheerful : Songs  Songs have been around since the caveman. First instruments, the voice. Whistling, clapping and of course flute and percussion. Strings and other wind instruments followed with the creation of string quarters and orchestra during the 18th Century.  Two reasons to be Cheerful : Songs & Music. Songs have been around since the caveman. First instruments, the voice. Whistling, clapping and of course flute and percussion. Strings and other wind instruments were followed by the creation of string quartets and orchestra during the 18th Century. Music is a world that captures the voices and sounds of life: humans, origin stories, animals, acts of nature and metal working.  🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶 Songs. One of the earliest forms of expression that still contributes to the history of the world. Songs carry our emotions, experiences, how and who we love and breakup with; messages that prompt thought, celebration, hopes, joy, pain and r...

Each of us enters conversations with our own opinions, feelings, theories, and experiences about the topic at hand, making up our "pool of meaning." 💭 Some of the leading causes of frequent conflicts include differences in opinions and endless meanings attributed to a single term instead of free, transparent communication. With such scenarios, people end up being: Silent or withdrawn. They suppress their opinions and thoughts for fear of confrontation or offending the other person. Violent and aggressive. They force their views on others in the form of sarcastic remarks, using authority, or demanding something during a conversation. Neither of these solutions is sound.  Every crucial conversation has a blend of three main ingredients: high stakes, strong emotions, and opposing points of view and perspectives. These ingredients can significantly affect our lives.  When you handle conversations in a sound and systematic manner, it improves communication and drives relationship...

By Sharon Patton Dear Ancestors, Your descendants thank you for your recent handiwork down south. That 18-hour plantation house fire? Beautiful. That Confederate museum getting clobbered by a tree? Art. Now, if y’all still got a little righteous rage and ancestral wind left in the tank, we humbly submit the following wishlist for your next demolition of real-life shrines to white supremacy that could use a little… you know. Mount Rushmore. Can y’all send a lightning bolt straight through George Washington’s stone wig? The Christopher Columbus statues that still stand. Can y’all swallow them in sinkholes? And if thats asking too much then maybe just hit them with pigeon orgies. Might y’all be able to send some ancestral smoke to Colonial Williamsburg? Send a heat wave to melt every wool waistcoat and have every butter churn explode on cue. Can y’all bless your descendants by sending a termite plague to The Daughters of the Confederacy headquarters? Pull up on Jefferson Davis’s h...

Main Points - Connecting Is Crucial - Connecting Goes Beyond Words - Connection Requires Energy - Common Traits of Great      Connectors - Connection Must Be Inspiring - Keep It Simple Connection Requires Energy ⚡ Communication has to emit positive energy. Make sure that you connect to others emotionally, verbally, intellectually, and visually via your speech. To succeed in it, you have to recharge yourself constantly. 🔋 To connect with others, you don't have to be a high-energy person or an extrovert. Simply said, you must be willing to spend all of your attention on others. While excellent communication and social skills will help leaders create connections more easily, they must also recognize that they have to intentionally organize and initiate chances to engage with people. 👀 You should be strategic to use the energy for connection. Here are five aspects to consider and actions to take: 1. Connecting requires initiative. Be bold and go first! 💪 2. ...

In the context of Crucial Conversations, active listening involves fully engaging with the speaker, seeking to understand their perspective, and responding thoughtfully, rather than just hearing the words.  This includes techniques like paraphrasing, clarifying, and reflecting on what's being said to ensure mutual understanding. It also encompasses suspending judgment, focusing on nonverbal cues, and being present in the moment.  Key Listening Skills in Crucial Conversations: Active Listening: Making eye contact, nodding, summarizing to confirm understanding, and taking time to absorb information before responding.  Paraphrasing: Restating the speaker's ideas in your own words to ensure comprehension and demonstrate that you're paying attention.  Clarifying: Asking clarifying questions to ensure you understand the other person's perspective and address any misunderstandings.  Reflecting: Mirroring back to the speaker what you've observed and heard, both verbally...

Leave your shyness aside, pull your friend and come dance Deixa a timidez de lado, puxa a amiga e vem dançar Shows everything you know, Guuga will analyze Mostra tudo o que 'cê sabe, o Guuga vai analisar Leave your shyness aside, pull your friend and come dance Deixa a timidez de lado, puxa a amiga e vem dançar Show everything you know, that Livinho will look at you Mostra tudo o que 'cê sabe, que o Livinho vai te olhar You can, you can, you can sit Pode, pode, pode sentar You can, you can, you can sit Pode, pode, pode sentar You can, you can, you can sit Pode, pode, pode sentar And if you're really excited, you can dance naked E se tiver muito excitada, pode dançar pelada If you are very excited, you can dance naked Se tiver muito excitada, pode dançar pelada I'm obsessed with you Eu 'to vidrado em você Shake your ass now, I want you to get down Balança a bunda agora, eu quero você descer Shake your ass now, I want you to get down Balança a bunda agora, eu quero vo...

Verbal Judo: A Guide to Conflict De-escalation Foreword Verbal Judo is an outstanding guide for those who want to learn how to use words to avoid conflict and obtain what they want in even the most difficult situations. Verbal Judo is a book on employing soft skills to avoid arguments and yet obtain what they want. Author George Thompson, a judo and tae kwon do karate black belt, discusses his techniques for settling disagreements without even raising your voice or arguing. Verbal Judo is a mind-and-tongue martial art that can teach you how to properly prepare for any verbal confrontation. This book will teach you tried-and-true methods for gaining the upper hand in any verbal conflict. According to the author, Verbal Judo is about redirecting and exploiting the other person’s hostility to achieve your purpose. It’s the polar opposite of verbal karate, which tends to escalate and damage people’s feelings. The entire concept of Verbal Judo is based on treating others with decency and re...

Oya is a fascinating figure in Yoruba mythology, primarily worshipped in West Africa and the African diaspora, particularly in Brazil and the Caribbean. She's a powerful orisha (deity) associated with: 1. Storms and winds 2. Fire and lightning 3. Change and transformation 4. Fertility and women's empowerment 5. Protection and guardianship Oya is often depicted as a strong, dynamic, and fierce woman, embodying the qualities of a warrior and a mother. Her stories and symbolism vary across cultures, but her essence remains a force to be reckoned with. Oya's significance extends beyond her association with storms. She's also revered for her: 1. Power and strength: Oya embodies fierce energy, transformation, and resilience. 2. Protection: She's believed to safeguard her devotees and bring justice. 3. Fertility and abundance: Oya's connection to the earth and cycles of nature links her to fertility. 4. Change and transformation: As a goddess of storms, Oya symbolizes ...

The Yoruba people are an ethnic group from West Africa, primarily from Nigeria, Benin, and Togo. Here are some basics: 1. *Language*: Yoruba is a tonal language with a rich oral tradition. 2. *Culture*: Known for their vibrant art, music, and dance. 3. *Spirituality*: Yoruba people believe in a complex pantheon of gods and goddesses (Orishas), with a supreme deity, Olodumare. 4. *Mythology*: Rich stories and legends about the Orishas, including Oya, Shango, and others. 5. *Traditions*: Yoruba culture emphasizes community, respect for elders, and ancestral reverence. Yoruba culture has significantly influenced various aspects of life, including: 1. Afro-Caribbean traditions 2. Brazilian Candomblé 3. Art, literature, and music worldwide Let's dive deeper into Yoruba culture and mythology. Some key aspects of Yoruba culture include: 1. *Respect for elders*: Elders are highly respected for their wisdom and life experience. 2. *Community*: Yoruba people value community and family ties. ...

In Yoruba spiritual traditions, becoming a priestess typically involves: 1. *Initiation*: A formal ceremony where one is consecrated to a specific Orisha. 2. *Training and mentorship*: Studying under an experienced priest or priestess. 3. *Spiritual development*: Cultivating a deep understanding of the tradition, its practices, and the Orishas. For Black women interested in becoming priestesses, the process may involve: 1. *Finding a reputable spiritual community*: Connecting with experienced practitioners and leaders. 2. *Learning and preparation*: Studying Yoruba traditions, rituals, and practices. 3. *Initiation and ordination*: Undergoing formal initiation and potentially becoming ordained. Some important considerations: 1. *Respect and reverence*: Approach the tradition with respect, humility, and a willingness to learn. 2. *Cultural sensitivity*: Understand the historical and cultural context of Yoruba spirituality. 3. *Community involvement*: Building relationships with experien...

## Yoruba Communities in Florida Florida is home to a significant number of Yoruba communities, particularly in South Florida. Here are some places and organizations that may be of interest: ### Organizations - *Yoruba Heritage Association*: Although based in Dallas, Texas, they have a presence in Florida and work to promote Yoruba culture and heritage. - *Ifalobaorisa Temple*: Located in Florida, this temple promotes the principles and teachings of Ifa, Orisa, and African traditions. They offer various services, including spiritual guidance, initiations, and classes. - *Ogunda Ose Ifa Temple and Spiritual Healing Center*: With locations in Atlanta, Georgia, and New York City, they also serve the Florida community, providing spiritual guidance, healing, and education on Yoruba traditions. - *Yoruba Global One Thousand Inc. (YG1K)*: This organization advocates for self-determination and has alliances with over 37 pro-self-determination groups globally.[¹](https://yoruba-ha.org/home.html...

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Okay, being the last day of Black History month, I did a fast binge of a series called: Wicked City. It was so riveting that I signed up for the ALLBLACK Channel 🤣🤣🤣 !!! I viewed them from a variety of streaming services (Netflix, Prime, Hulu, TUBI). I even found a freestyle from @officialgreymusic on Instagram which I shared with a few of my BOF (Best Online Friends). I watch that everyday along with snippets of Kendrick Lamar's halftime show featuring Serena's cripp walk (🤣🤣🤣).  While online, I also found one of my favorite dancers after wondering for years what happened to him, "Tighteyez," via of coming across dance routines done by his wife Kendra who used to dance with Beyonce. So now I follow them both!  Lastly, I found all kinds of foodie and fitness clips by DEI chefs, and, mainly Black fitness buffs I now follow throughout the week so I can stay fit and flexible 💪😁!!!   So, I was truly engaged in my own 28 Days of Blackness Challenge. I took three da...

The meaning of anointing with rose water (Googled) Anointing with rose water is a practice rooted in various spiritual traditions and carries diverse symbolic meanings across cultures.  General symbolism Purity and cleansing: Rose water's refreshing and delicate nature symbolizes purification of both physical spaces and the energetic aura of individuals. Love and divine connection: The enchanting fragrance of rose water is believed to evoke feelings of love, both for oneself and in connection with the divine. Emotional healing and spiritual upliftment: The calming aroma of rose water is used in aromatherapy and rituals to promote relaxation, emotional healing, and a sense of serenity. Opening the heart chakra: In some spiritual practices, rose water is associated with opening the heart chakra, fostering compassion and deepening one's connection to the divine.  Cultural and religious significance Islam: Rosewater plays a significant role in Islamic traditions. It is used in rel...

Buddhism you unpack the issues of both valuing our own choices and other people's values regarding our boundaries respect in a clear pristine fashion.  I think my takeaways are not being able to continue living people and still say this is not okay. I have tried forgiving specific actions, but they keep occurring. Now resentment has taken the place of forgiveness or having patience with people I'm supposed to love. Because I'm beginning NOT TO LOVE THEM. That's really different for me.  The other piece is that when I forgove anyone, it feels like I've cut off a finger. Magically over time it grows back. But that finger keeps getting cut off again...each time I feel pain, but I also feel slighted. Tricked and betrayed. This piece is a little dark and complex because now I don't really forgive. I basically go numb if I have to deal with the person I supposedly forgive. I don't think I'm forgiving at all. I intentionally forget I even have any feelings for ...

Yoruba cosmology, several deities are associated with water. The most prominent are Olokun, Yemoja, and Oshun. Olokun is the orisha of the deep ocean and its hidden riches, while Yemoja is the orisha of the ocean's surface, motherhood, and the seas. Oshun is the orisha of fresh water, love, fertility, and beauty, particularly associated with the Osun River. Theses deities are associated with water. The most prominent are Olokun, Yemoja, and Oshun. Olokun is the orisha of the deep ocean and its hidden riches, while Yemoja is the orisha of the ocean's surface, motherhood, and the seas. Oshun is the orisha of fresh water, love, fertility, and beauty, particularly associated with the Osun River.  Here's a more detailed look at each: Olokun: Olokun is the orisha of the deep ocean, wealth, and the mysteries of the deep sea. Some traditions see Olokun as a male deity, while others see Olokun as female, and some as both or neither (androgynous). Olokun is also associated with madne...

Aug 11-12, 2025, Sturgeon Moon https://archangeloracle.com As you look within to find your gifts and assimilate the new energies, aligning with your new Soul Path, things may feel a bit overwhelming. There shouldn’t be pressure to ‘get ahead’ right now, try to focus instead on settling into it. Commit yourself to slow and steady action steps, one at a time, towards manifesting your dreams. Don’t be put off if things are taking longer than you would like; and know that by working through it, even when it’s feeling challenging, you are telling the Universe that you are serious about this, it is important to you, and you are not willing to give up. Know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, this message is very clear that you must stay in the same tunnel to get to the light! Do not decide that the grass looks greener on the other side and make last minute changes to compromise your dreams. Also do not let doubt get the better of you. Know that the only way through it is through ...

The number 222, commonly referred to as an angel number, is widely interpreted in numerology and spirituality as a message of balance, harmony, and alignment in one's life and relationships. It symbolizes that you are on the right path, encouraging you to maintain faith, trust, and patience as your positive intentions and thoughts manifest. Seeing 222 often signifies upcoming new beginnings, encourages you to nurture relationships and seek unity, and serves as a reminder to listen to your intuition. 

 When you can control your lusts You realize women don't have much to offer.  That sounds like cold assed logic. As if you've got no heart. In fact, as a woman I can tell you: that's a damn lie 🤥. Btw... I'm 60 years old. And I haven't laid on anything except a sofa, a recliner and my bed for over twenty years because I know for a fact: men don't really luv us anymore...because they don't care about us like they used to. So I am not terribly shocked. However, Thanks for enlightening me about how "Top tier" men really feel about women these days. I will leave you alone now or you can block me. I wish you love, bro. Don't know how you'll get it...but all human (&living) beings desire to have someone to belong with... 🫵 😕. Why top tier men aren't going on dates. Wooooow‼️ Can't see the correlation here. That comparison is stupid. Why does a man like this need to compare how much he makes, with enjoying or not enjoying himself wi...

In spiritual numerology, the number 111 is an "angel number" that signals new beginnings, alignment, and the rapid manifestation of your thoughts. It serves as a message from the universe, encouraging you to maintain a positive mindset and focus on your goals and desires, as these are likely to become a reality quickly.  Key Meanings of 111 New Beginnings: The number 1 represents creation and new opportunities, so seeing 111 can indicate that a fresh start or a new chapter is unfolding in your life.  Alignment and Guidance: It suggests that your thoughts, intentions, and desires are aligning with the universe. This can be a sign that you are on the right path and in alignment with your higher purpose.  Manifestation Power: The repetition of the number 1 signifies a powerful opportunity to manifest your dreams. Your thoughts are said to be rapidly manifesting into form, so it's crucial to be aware of your thoughts and keep them positive and constructive.  Encouragemen...

In the Yoruba language, àṣẹ (ah-shay) represents the divine life force, spiritual energy, and the power or authority to make things happen and produce change. It is a deep philosophical concept and belief system that underpins existence, given by the Creator (Olódùmarè) to all things. When invoked, particularly in prayers and rituals, àṣẹ serves as a potent affirmation and spiritual endorsement, similar to the word "Amen" but with a greater emphasis on command and the power to manifest one's intentions.  Meanings and uses of àṣẹ: The power to make things happen: This is the core concept, referring to the ability to bring about change and manifest intentions.  Spiritual life force: It is the divine spark or energy that flows through all things, enabling existence and action.  Command and authority: As a word, àṣẹ can be an order or a command that carries inherent power.  Spiritual endorsement: It is a way to confirm and seal words, prayers, or wishes with divine power...

What is the significance of 4:44? Seeing 4:44 repetitively is believed to hold spiritual significance, symbolizing that you're being guided and supported by the universe. Here are some possible meanings: - Angelic Message: It's a sign that angels or divine messengers are sending encouragement and support. You're valued and worthy because you're a part of the Creator's luminous force. - Spiritual Awakening: 4:44 might signify that you're on the path of spiritual awakening, becoming more aware of your surroundings and sensing a higher spiritual dimension. - Connection with Deceased Loved Ones: This number can be a sign from deceased loved ones, letting you know they're near, okay, and want you to be happy. - Trust Your Path: Seeing 4:44 repeatedly might mean you're exactly where you need to be, and the universe is guiding you toward your purpose. It's a reminder to trust your journey and have faith. - Building Spiritual Foundation: 4:44 can symbolize t...